If you’re craving a crash course on the philosophy of kink won’t find a better guide than the Sexual Freedom Philosopher herself, Nicolle Hodges.This episode of You Like It dives deep into the mythological implications of kink, the subtleties of power dynamics, and the vital role of trust in BDSM. Hodges sheds light on common misconceptions, reveals gaps in BDSM literature, and discusses how kink can serve as a powerful avenue for healing and self-discovery. The conversation also covers cultural shifts sparked by phenomena like Fifty Shades of Grey, the significance of community evolution, and the rewards and challenges of exploring the shadow self through BDSM.Nicolle Hodges is a journalist, author, and Sexual Freedom Philosopher, as well as the founder of Girls Who Say Fuck—an incubator for projects and conversations that instigate change. She is the author of Oh, the Places You’ll Go Oh Oh, a Dr. Seuss-style exploration of the power of female orgasms. Hodges also created the video series Men Who Take Baths and launched the Garden of Earthly Delights event series to challenge societal norms around sexuality. Currently, she is completing a new book that explores BDSM as therapy, continuing her mission to expand conversations and empower people to embrace their own desires.Links Nicolle Double L (@nicolledoublel) Nicolle Hodges (@nicolledoublel) / X Nicolle Hodges Substack Oh, the Places You'll Go Oh Oh! Men Who Take Baths Men Who Take Baths (@menwhotakebaths) Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power: Urbaniak, Kasia Existential Kink The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink Getting the Love You Want Discovering Kinbaku Member Spotlight: Susan WrightTimestamps

Exploring BDSM and Sexual Freedom

The Philosophy of Dominance and Submission

Literature and Resources on Kink

Misconceptions and Realities of BDSM

The Role of Trust and Consent

The Healing Power of Kink

The Myth of Inanna

Kink and Personal Growth

The Healing Journey of Kink

Advice for Kink Beginners

Kink in the Context of Modern Culture