If you think you need someone to make you whole, that's when you need to love on yourself more! Spoil yourself! Don't let the narcissist convince you to think or do otherwise. Don't allow them to overstep your boundaries and cause drama between you and your loved ones. That's their mission. Stop engaging and defending yourself. The narcissist knows exactly what they're doing to you. Step away and laser focus on your dreams and aspirations. If you can dream it, you can be it! You're enough, period!