A Narcissist has no clue as to what he or she is looking for in a spouse or partner. Never believe them or try to live up to any of their expectations. It's 100% a waste of time! Put that time into people who genuinely love and respect you. Those who reciprocate what you give to them. You'll never get anything real from a narcissist. They will always have a manipulating agenda. Don't ever trust one! Period!