Without Losing Your Cool with Shantelle Bisson
Without Losing Your Cool with Shantelle Bisson
Shantelle Bisson
041. Navigating Life's Toughest Conversations with Michelle Surtees
54 minutes Posted Mar 1, 2023 at 9:00 am.
WLYC Epi 41 Michelle
Marker - Why Michelle wrote her book, Crummy Conversations
Marker .- Why it's so important for kids to see and understand the whole picture
Marker - How to handle wishing we could go back and change things
Marker - What Raising Your Kids Without Losing Your Cool actually means
Marker - How Michelle transformed her communication style and in turn transformed her relationships
Marker - How to bring your full self to your relationship
Marker - The goal of intentional and empathetic communication
Marker - The Courage to Communicate model
Marker - Navigating situations that don't have a positive outcome
Marker - The role of our Amygdala
Marker - Differentiating between real danger and fight, flight or freeze
Marker - Strategies to process and move forward in hard moments and feeling safe
Marker - How to make uncomfortable conversations feel more natural
Marker - What intentional and empthetic communication is
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In this episode, Michelle Surtees (https://www.instagram.com/tough.cookie.communications/) sits down to talk about her latest book, "Crummy Conversations," and her beliefs on the importance of communication in all types of relationships – especially with our kids. Michelle dives in with her inspiration for writing "Crummy Conversations," a book about talking with kids about death, divorce, diagnosis, departure, and disaster. She emphasizes the importance of kids understanding the whole picture and why it's crucial for parents to be honest with their children about difficult topics.

As someone who has worked with children and families for over 18 years, Michelle believes that courageous communication is for everyone. She shares how she transformed her communication style and in turn, transformed her relationships and brought her closer to herself. She explains the goal of intentional and empathetic communication and introduces the Courage to Communicate model.
Michelle also gives us tips for navigating situations that don't have a positive outcome and differentiating between real danger and fight, flight, or freeze. 

As you’ll hear in their conversation, Michelle's insights remind us of the importance of intentional and empathetic communication in all aspects of our lives. 

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