'Do you want to be an active ally, or do you just want to say that out loud?'<a href="https://www.instagram.com/jeffreybchapman" target="_blank">Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman</a> (Judge/host on Canada's Drag Race, Unreal) joins Nicole to unpack racial traumas from childhood, discuss the systematic racism in society, and rise in performative allies instead of active ones. After the break, Nicole shares her experience finding love at a Lassens.Be an active ally. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>.Follow Nicole Byer:Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>Order Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a> Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via <a href="https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer/5a592688b73aeb30532c6b2c" target="_blank">Gumball.fm</a>

Fatphobia (w/ Roxane Gay)

Dating can be a hot mess, from being ghosted by your crush to realizing that you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Why Won't You Date Me? is here to help.

Join Nicole Byer, the perpetual singleton, as she invites fellow comedians, friends, and ex-flings to talk romance and share their wildest dating tales, from cringeworthy first dates to jaw-dropping hookup stories. Nothing is off-limits.