Wholehearted Loving
Wholehearted Loving
Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
Ep25 | We're Not Accepting Verbal Apologies This Year, Just Changed Behaviour
37 minutes Posted Jun 18, 2023 at 5:00 pm.
Self-Connection Practice
Healing ourselves through welcoming our big feelings and offering ourselves gentle holding
Honouring our own feelings and needs by changing the dance with our loved ones
Word apologies are useless without aligned actions
How are you teaching people to treat you
Having the courage to honor what you actually want and the value of letting others see your authentic experience
Honoring someone else’s no and being delighted for others that they value their own needs
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It feels good to receive an apology, and it can be such a tempting relief to leave it at that — especially when asking for what we needed or sharing what hurt us was already so hard to do. But it's actions that make the real impact and demonstrate meaningful care. You've heard the idea that we teach people how to treat us? In part, this is what that means: we teach people if apologies are sufficient, or if changed behaviour is also needed. In today's episode, we talk about integrity between words and action — in our relationships and in ourselves.
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