Pro Pro Pro 12 because the LORD corrects the person he loves, just as a father corrects the son he delights in. Heb 7 What you endure disciplines you: God is treating you as sons. Is there a son whom his father does not discipline? 8 Now if you are without any discipline, in which all sons share, then you are illegitimate and not God’s sons. Stay in a child's place what does that mean? I've heard it mean stay out of Grow folks business you're to grown right now and your mouth is smart. But Jesus said a little child shall led them. He also said that unless you are like one these children (meek. Humble, pure) you won't see the Kingdom of heaven. So maybe we need to normalize listening to your children watching them around people maybe God has given them insight because you missed it and is trying to work patience in your through your children. But because you have bills and you doing things like it's always been done like your granny that wooped your mom and your mom that wooped you that's all you know. Take time and talk to your children and let them express themselves and correct them but don't discipline them out of your confusion and make them confused and then when trouble comes their way they won't talk to you because you forced them to hide and or suppress their emotions so they drink, smoke, sex, fight it away instead of dealing with it.