We’re joined by Daniella Mestyanek Young, the author of Uncultured. She was born a third generation member of an influential family, within The Family International, better known as the Children of God cult. She escaped at fifteen, put herself through school, and graduated from college as valedictorian.Daniella joined the Army, became Captain, and she received the Presidential Volunteer Service Award. She was an Intelligence Officer in one of the Army’s first Female Engagement Teams. In two tours and six years, she saw patterns in the military that were just like her experiences in the Children of God.Here are Daniella's 10 characteristics of a cult that we talk about:1. Has a charismatic leader (and a skinny white woman)2. A sacred assumption3. The transcendental mission4. Self-sacrifice of members5. Limits access to the outside world6. Distinguishable vernacular7. Us versus them mentality8. Exploits members' labor9. High exit costs10. Ends justify the means mentalityFind Daniella online:https://twitter.com/daniellamyounghttps://www.instagram.com/daniellamyoung_https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellamestyanekyoungBy Daniella's book UnCULTuredhttps://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250280114We're also excited to announce that our long promised merch is here!!We know it's tough sometimes to express your leftist feelings in public. Your ratty Che Guevara and CCCP t-shirts seem better left at home. Now you can fly your crypto-leftist flag and still be completely under the radar with our personal love letter to Juan José Arévalo, philosopher and socialist president of Guatemala, and the airline he nationalized.wetwired.printful.me/Subscribe on Patreon to support making this show, get premium only episodes, and listen to our entire back catalog.patreon.com/wetwired