We Can't Do This Alone
We Can't Do This Alone
Erin Stitzel
The Best Piece of Advice I have Ever Received
54 minutes Posted Apr 14, 2026 at 10:14 am.
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In this episode of 'We Can't Do This Alone', host Erin Stitzel engages in a heartfelt conversation with her mentor, Brenda Stier Anstine. They explore Brenda's career journey, the significance of mentorship, and the importance of being the youngest person in the room to foster continuous learning. Brenda shares invaluable advice for young professionals, insights on effective board membership, and her ongoing commitment to mentoring others. The discussion emphasizes the power of vulnerability, the necessity of respecting a mentor's time, and the importance of defining personal success. This episode serves as a reminder that mentorship is a two-way street, where both parties can learn and grow together.

Takeaways:

  • Brenda's Professional Journey & Leadership Path
    Explore the key experiences, decisions, and influences that shaped Brenda's remarkable career and leadership style.
  • The Transformative Role of Mentorship
    Learn why mentorship matters, how it accelerates growth, and the reciprocal value of both receiving and providing guidance.
  • The Practice of Being a Mentor and Having a Mentor
    Examine the discipline and intentionality behind effective mentorship, including approaches Brenda uses to build long-standing, meaningful mentor–mentee relationships.
  • Illustrative Mentorship Stories
    Brenda share's memorable examples of individuals she has mentored—including Erin—and highlight different styles or tactics she uses (e.g., weekly standing check-ins, career-shaping conversations, accountability practices).
  • Brenda's Influence on Erin's Professional Growth
    Erin shares her perspective on how Brenda's mentorship has shaped her career direction, confidence, and leadership approach.
  • Guidance for Engaging Board Members and Board Chairs in Philanthropy
    Learn from Brenda's extensive board experience to explore best practices, relationship-building strategies, and actionable advice for partnering effectively with board leaders to advance philanthropy.

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