Wannabe Clutter Free | Declutter, Simplify, Find Freedom
Wannabe Clutter Free | Declutter, Simplify, Find Freedom
Deanna Yates | Professional Organizer, Decluttering Coach, Wannabe Minimalist
Declutter for Real Life: Flexible Minimalism Tips for Families with Desirae Endres (Ep 313)
54 minutes Posted Jun 10, 2026 at 7:00 am.
Introduction
Desirae's origin story: the documentary that changed everything
Why changing your nature is harder than changing what you own
How decluttering helped manage postpartum anxiety
Letting go of clothes and letting go of past versions of yourself
Baby stuff, the "what if" fear, and letting go anyway
Feeling like an imposter when your home does not look minimal
The minimalist aesthetic vs. the minimalist mindset
Accepting certain areas of clutter in your current season
Teaching kids to declutter: where to start
The power of narrating your own decluttering out loud
What age should kids start participating?
What Desirae wishes someone had told her at the very beginning
Decluttering as a gateway to bigger life changes
Rapid fire questions
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Have you ever looked at a "minimalist" home on Instagram and thought, well, that is never going to be me. My kids alone would destroy that in four minutes? Or convinced yourself that your clutter-free journey isn't working because your house just doesn't look the part? You are not alone. And this conversation is for you.
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Desirae Endres is the host of the Minimalish podcast, and her decluttering journey started in 2018 when she sat down as a brand new mom and watched a documentary that completely changed the way she thought about her stuff, her home, and her identity.
Since then she has built an entire community around the idea of "minimal-ish" living, not a perfect aesthetic, not a stark white capsule home, just a real and intentional life with less in the way. 
In this episode, Desirae gets honest about the postpartum anxiety that made her desperate for a calmer home, what it felt like when her husband said their house no longer looked minimal-ish, and the beautiful shift she had about what this whole journey is actually for. We also dig into how to get your kids involved in decluttering without it turning into a battle, and the single most powerful thing you can do to raise kids who genuinely understand how to let go.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
What "minimal-ish" means and why it has nothing to do with how your home looks
The real connection between clutter and mental health
Why letting go of stuff is really about letting go of past versions of yourself
How to involve your kids in decluttering without forcing it
What age kids can meaningfully participate (and when it is okay to just do it yourself)
The one thing you can do today that quietly teaches your kids to let go
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