Wait...WTF
Wait...WTF
Julia Wells
What I do when I'm beating myself up
37 minutes Posted Apr 9, 2026 at 11:00 am.
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What do you do when you cannot stop being an asshole to yourself?

In this episode, we're talking about beating yourself up, especially if you're a high-achieving, hyper-ambitious human who just calls it "having high standards."

I break down:

  • How I went from overcomplicating everything in business to building a million-dollar brand by doing the boring-ass basics on repeat
  • How I finally started losing weight (and feeling good in my body) using the same exact principles
  • Why you do not have to torture yourself to create big results—and how to build a life and business that feel pleasurable, sustainable, and powerful as fuck
  • Why hustle culture + capitalism have you thinking you should be a superhuman robot
  • The real emotions underneath self-criticism (hi, grief + rage)
  • A simple protocol you can use when you're spiraling

If you're tired of being mean to yourself and ready to build results from pleasure, power, and actual self-respect… this one's for you.

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