When we say I have fallen in love with you , what we are actually saying is that I have fallen in love with that place inside me that brings me pleasure that you bring to me .

Because when we fall in love with someone , it because they have opened that part pleasure within us that almost feels like exstaicy , so when we are in love we are almost in this feeling  nirvana\heaven 

We can slo experience this feeling of oooh yeah when we orgasim  . When we organism we transcend beyond our ego , to a place of pleasure that we want to stay in .

So like love we crave that feeling pleasure , however you see now the problem start to come in when we think that someone or something is the key to awakening that part of us that feels that pleasure . When in reality that pleasure is inside us and we have the ability to feel that way all the time .that sate of feeling pleasure all the time is bliss ,

 being in a blissful state which most yogis and enlighten people are . Being in bliss means you have gone beyond pleasure , where everything in life is fragile to your heart and you can’t help but feel compassion for everything .

As ram das  puts it “ the experiencer of bliss is separate from bliss and finally you become bliss by giving up the experiencer “ in other words the moment you can give up the need of looking outside yourself for love is and look within and be silent with yourself . Love arises within you , you become love , you become compassion , you become the captain of your own emotions , as a result of letting the idea that you need something else that is outside yourself to feel love . 

now we live in a generation and by generation I mean for those who are of a younger majority , where love has taken on a whole new meaning 

We see love now as a sort of almost transaction  between two people more than something that is given for free .

I also think that this is also very common to see in west . We look at it now like “ I give you this love and in return , you give me back the same love that I give to you . “  you see  the problem now ? We give love with a string attached onto it . This becomes very problematic because now love works on a basis of condition instead of working on unconditional sort of love . 

For those of you who  are struggling to find love in your life or even have the desire of wanting someone to be in your life , some even going to extend of chasing it . Ask yourself the question? Why are seeking love . For you see love isn’t a kind of seeking or desire to obtain , now I understand the need of wanting to be loved , it is a human desire and longing that we want . I mean without love where would we be  probably in a terrible time .

However you see the love we crave is the love of feeling accepted  and being praised for our amazing traits that we have .

I like to think of real love as the same kind of love a mother bear has to her cub , or a mother to her child . You see because the relation between mother and child is one that is 

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