Think about it.  What makes a man, a man?  Is it muscles and strength, a prestigious job, having kids or a certain number as in age?  According to Rick it takes three things.  First, humility, not that you don’t think of yourself, but that you think of others more.  Next service, so that you contribute in big and small ways those who need what you can give.  Last, vulnerability, stop trying to shut down feelings as it’s okay to have them.  It’s what you do with them that makes all the difference.  Another great tidbit: yes, sometimes men really are not thinking anything.  ‘Sometimes we are just so simple.’  Rick Hacker is our guest this week for the series It’s Raining Men - What do they really think?