season 2 update 3:25 - let’s talk about sex 6:20 - should the guy always initiate? 10:30 - spontaneous sex is better 17:15 - sex becomes better when 17:25 - focus on pleasure not performance 22:33 - treat it as play and the priority is to have fun 24:05 - insecurities are normalized and treated sensitively 24:29 - expectations and pressure are removed 26:40 - all 5 senses are aroused and attended to 29:12 - passion and intensity are interwoven with laughing and silliness 33:10 - you take turns being the giver and the receiver 35:08 - you spend time exploring what each other like and how you like it 37:00 - there are open conversations about preferences, desires, fantasies, expectations and boundaries 39:30 - it’s not treated as an expectation nor as a chore 40:00 - answers to listener’s questions.