Don Lemon says a 51-year-old woman is past her prime. A Fox News guest blames cat ladies who can't back up trucks for the undoing of society. And I think they all have small weiners. In great timing, we have a certified dating coach, Lilli Bewley (@lillybewley), in the house to turn the tables, taking a look at the hot mess of both women AND MEN, sexuality skewed on both sides of the aisle, and the real Big Lie: that society's actually taught our women how to be "boss babes."