How do we balance our Jewish identity with American ideals, especially during Thanksgiving? I explore this question through my own Thanksgiving traditions, reflections on Jewish-American history, and the lessons of Parashat Chayyei Sarah. From Abraham's struggle as a "resident alien" to George Washington's promise of religious equality, I delve into the tensions and opportunities of living as proud Jews in a pluralistic society. This year, how can we put the Jewish back in Jewish-American?