When you are choosing worthy clients and making decisions about whether or not a prospect is worthy of your time and attention, whether or not they're worthy of follow up, you are bound to make some mistakes in that process. And so when you do this, you have to recognize that some of that is going to come with the territory. You may make a wrong decision that will cost you some business down the line. So you have to weigh that against quality of life issues.



David: Hi, and welcome to the podcast. In today's episode, co-host Jay McFarland, and I will be discussing choosing worthy clients. Welcome back, Jay.



Jay: Hey, thank you, David. It's such a pleasure to be back on again. And once again, I love this topic. I feel like, personally in my experience, there is a tendency to believe that you have to take every client. And you know what? In some businesses that is true, you're going to take every customer who comes through the door. In other cases, you can be more selective and it could make your life a lot easier. It can make your business a lot better.

David: Yeah, that's one of the reasons I thought this would be a really good topic, because I believe that in many businesses they don't even consider this.

I think that in many businesses we feel like, okay, we're going to serve whoever we can serve. We want to take whoever comes through the door, and we just want to serve them to the best of our ability. And while that is noble, it's not always great from your own standpoint, from your own business standpoint.

And I wish this was something that I knew from the beginning, but it was not. As most things, we learn it the hard way and this is no exception. And at some point along the way, the idea of pursuing worthy clients, choosing worthy clients, tracking down worthy clients just really started to appeal to me. And when I started using that term with some of my clients, they were like," wow, that never even occurred to me. and what do you mean by worthy? You know, things like that. So we can dive into all of that in today's podcast.

Jay: Yeah. I think that there are some things that we hear over the years and they start to sink in. We just don't ever challenge 'em in our mode of thinking.

Like I think of the customer's always, right. I've come to believe. No, no, that's just not true. Do I want to do everything to satisfy the customer? Yes. Yes, I do. But there are customers who can never be satisfied or I can't provide what they want. So, no, they're not always right. So I love that we have these discussions. So let's start off with this word worthy. What in your mind is a worthy customer?

David: Well, I think we have to decide that for ourselves, what we determine to be a worthy prospect or client for ourselves. And some of that can go back to what you talked about, in the customer's always right or the customer's not always right.

But you can have a customer that is absolutely right about things and you can have a good relationship with them, but they may not still be a worthy client if they are taking up more time than they are costing.

So if they're not really focused on buying from you to the extent that you need them to in order to be worthy of your time and attention, it may be something as simple as that.

And in those situations, I'm not suggesting, okay, well you're just going to bag all these people. If you've got a relationship with someone and you like the relationship you have and you're okay with it, then you can deem that prospect or client worthy. You can say, "all right, well, I like dealing with this person, therefore they are worthy of my time and attention."

But for me, I believe that's where it starts. We each have to decide. Is this prospect or is this client worthy of my time and attention?