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#5 - Fear of Abandonment & Being Replaced in A Polyamorous Throuple Relationship

40 minutes Posted Sep 18, 2023 at 2:06 pm.

Intro

It's not strictly related to romantic relationships

Relationship changes when you become a parent

Polyamory and loss of original relationship

Entering a triad as the additional partner to a preexisting couple

How do you find happiness when you have to deal with change

How to deal with feeling excluded and dealing with comparisons and keeping score

Accept that monogamous structures don’t apply to polyamory

Focusing on what you gain versus what you are missing

Security within polyamory is a personal responsibility

Facing the fear of coming out as polyamorous within a monogamous relationship

Missing that poly something within monogamy and dealing with it

In polyamory you’re not supposed to be everything for your partners

Understanding what we can provide to a partner and what it not within our wheelhouse

We’re trying to be everything for a partner because societal expectations and we fail

We’re missing on the relational support within a tribe and community

Wrapping up and next episode Unwiring Hardwired Monogamy

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As an established polyamorous throuple, we know that in the early stages of starting a throuple, it is natural to fear that you may be replaced and to feel insecure about the depth of connection your partner is experiencing with another person. If you are experiencing these things, this episode is for you!

In this episode, we offer our personal stories, practical tips, and insights on overcoming the fear of loss as we delve into societal conditioning, personal insecurities, and the challenges of balancing multiple partners' needs and desires.

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