Less Effective vs More Effective MarriagesMe/mine  vs Ours/yoursLust vs Love. Force vs Allow Push vs.  Retreat/Relax/RelentTake vs Give Action vs  Action over time (see Brave Marriage Podcast)Livefor sex vs   Lifelong sex. Destroy vs Create. Now vs Evolve.Yell vs Learn. Fix vs  Empathize. Spouse is a priority vs Spouse is your top priority. Frantic vs Still.Panicked  vs Chill. Yell vs Collaborate.Urges vs Intimacy. Unchanging vs Iterations. Version 1.0.  vs Version 209.Anarchy  vs  Order. I've got this  vs God's got us. Lecture vs Learn together . Blame vs Take responsibility. Demand trust vs Be honest and trustworthy.Escape alone vs Vacation together.Despair vs  Trust. Argue vs Discuss Tough Issues--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thriving-twogether/support