Therapy Works
Therapy Works
Julia Samuel
David on toxic masculinity and finding hope in the darkest of times
52 minutes Posted Nov 23, 2022 at 1:00 am.
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*Trigger warning* - This episode includes references to suicide and physical abuse.


"I grew up around men that, you know, kind of spoke with the hands and not with the mouth."


In this incredibly powerful and moving conversation, David reflects on hitting rock bottom and finding hope in the darkest of times. Topics discussed in this episode include: 


  • How he overcame a violent childhood when one’s parent used aggression rather than words
  • How hard it can be to be an authentic sensitive man when surrounded by toxic masculinity
  • The idea that the cards we are dealt when we are born is down to luck but how we play them is shaped by our choices and decisions.
  • Why the question is not why the addiction - the question is what is the source of the pain it is anaesthetising?
  • Why we are constantly on the hunt for more and don’t know what we have to be grateful for until it’s taken away.



Julia’s Website: https://juliasamuel.co.uk/

Julia’s Instagram: @juliasamuelmbe

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If you are in need of support please visit: 

  • https://switchback.org.uk/ - London based prison rehabilitation charity
  •  https://www.hardmantrust.org.uk/directory/ - finds support services for prisoners


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Produced by Georgie Rutherford

Edited by Nick Kingswell


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