Releasing What Can Hold You Can Hold You Back From Your Future. You can't see in front of you from looking back. Trying to figure you out can be damaging to those who can the wonderful you that you'll never see from pity or feeling sorry for one's self. Abuse can only become removed from the body but not your soul until you realize that you being here is more important. Giving yourself to learn live and love is totally a want thing not a given thing. Searching for that comfort of fulfilling your missing image of perfect isn't real... But you are.