The Virtual Couch
The Virtual Couch
Tony Overbay LMFT
Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don’t Manage You by Ethan Kross - Virtual Couch Book Club w/Marla Christiansen, APCC
23 minutes Posted Jun 3, 2025 at 1:27 pm.
A Touching Parenting Moment
Introduction to the Virtual Couch
Book Club: Managing Emotions
The Importance of Emotional Awareness
Understanding Emotional Language
The Disconnect from Emotions
Introducing Dr. Ethan Cross's 'Shift'
Meet Marla Christiansen
Exploring Emotional Concepts from 'Shift'
The Complexity of Emotions
Practical Tools for Emotional Management
The Power of Distanced Self-Talk
External Influences on Emotions
Body Awareness and Emotions
Navigating Difficult Emotions
Impact of Social Media and Cultural Factors
Appreciating Emotions as Information
Book Club Discussion: 'Shift' by Dr. Ethan Cross
Starting the Interview with Marla Christensen
Diving into Emotional Regulation
Book Club Insights and Personal Reflections
The Law of Least Work
Exploring Low-Cost Emotional Shifts
Understanding Attention and Perspective
Navigating Emotional Avoidance and Approach
The Power of Reframing
Distanced Self-Talk: A Unique Approach
Shifting Emotions Through Environment
The Role of Relationships in Emotional Shifts
Cultural Influences on Emotions
The Impact of Comparison
Practical Tools for Emotional Mastery
Final Thoughts and Resources
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Marla Christensen, AMFT, APCC, and Tony Overbay, LMFT, delve into Ethan Kross's "Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don't Manage You" for another installment of the "Virtual Couch Book Club." They explore emotional awareness, sensory shifts, and cultural influences on emotional well-being. Practical techniques, such as distant self-talk and the Whoop framework (Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan), are covered, offering listeners actionable strategies for emotional management. Tony opens the episode by explaining how common parental phrases, such as "it's not a big deal" or "just don't worry about it," can unintentionally hinder emotional expression in adulthood, setting the stage for struggles with managing emotions later in life. This discussion offers valuable insights for individuals seeking to understand better and manage their emotions.