Sometimes you choose the topic, and sometimes the topic chooses you. For this one, we needed someone who could speak about death with wisdom and experience, strength and hope, but above all… be hilarious. So went to the woman who wrote the book. Alexandra Silber’s “White Hot Grief Parade” (Pegasus Books), is all that and a week of Broadway shows. Join us as this brilliant Broadway diva, memoirist and novelist (“After Anatevka,” also Pegasus Books) breaks down the raw truths and profound glories of love, loss and Fiddler on the Roof in an indelible episode of The Swirl. Also, be sure to stick around for the new game, “You Say You Love ‘Ragtime?’ I’ll Give You Ragtime!’” and see if you score higher than ‘Ragtime’s’ #1 fan. PS, don’t call her Alex. You can call her Al.