This is a lesson I've learned the hard way, and seem to keep re-learning the hard way. One of the habits described in Stephen Covey's book, 'the seven habits of highly effective people', seek first to understand is a beast! I'm learning. And here are some of the things I've learned. Look for patterns, develop better responses to triggers, and set the right foundation for a positive and constructive disagreement. It's worthwhile work!

Cover art by Angela Hobbs