The Self Love Fix
The Self Love Fix
Beatrice Kamau
Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program. Are you ready to finally step into your worthiness and magnetism? Are you tired of your limiting beliefs and self-doubt affecting every aspect of your life? You deserve to live an abundant life, you deserve to desire and achieve all of your dreams, and most importantly, you deserve to embody unshakable self-confidence. Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?” This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them. From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same. That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child. For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.beatricekamau.com I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at: IG: @theselflovefix Website: beatricekamau.com
127. Do You Have the Willingness to See Things Differently? Interview with Rachael Fisher
In this episode, I’m chatting with guest Rachael Fisher, an energetic leadership coach. Rachael helps entrepreneurs elevate their impact & income through subconscious healing, embodiment, energetic mastery, and emotional & mental alchemy. Some points we’ll discuss include: Self-Love as a Part of the Entrepreneurship Journey Working Through Limiting Beliefs The Willingness to See Things Differently  Being Your Authentic Self Shifting Your Mindset to “How Can I?” The Benefits of Working with a Coach or Mentor Rachael and I talk about facing discomfort, shifting your mindset to work towards things you want, and helping yourself get “unstuck” when you are unhappy with where you are. Simple shifts in mindset and support from a mentor can completely change your perspective and give you the chance to improve your life in ways you didn’t even know were possible.  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix  Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com  Grab Your FREE Self-Trust for the Inner Child Meditation: https://beatricekamau.com/freemeditation   CONNECT WITH RACHAEL: Instagram: https://instagram.com/iamrachaelfisher  Website: http://www.rachaelfishercoaching.com/links  Podcast: The Embodied Leadership Podcast
Oct 13
54 min
126. Qualities of a Healthy Friendship: Part 2
In this episode, I’m finishing up my conversation with my best friend Ebony regarding all things friendship. We’re continuing to answer your questions about these relationships, and we’re giving our advice on some common friendship issues that can arise.  Some points we’ll discuss include: Friendships for Independent Individuals Setting Boundaries Being There in Tough Times Communication and Struggles Resentment and Jealousy Friendships are all about genuine connections, finding shared values, and investing time in the people you feel most bonded with. I have received so many questions about friendships that I couldn't even fit them into one episode! So check out the full episode for all the details on what it takes to have (and maintain) a healthy friendship, and don’t forget to check out Part 1 from last week if you haven’t already. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix  Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com    EPISODE RESOURCES: FREE Self Trust for the Inner Child Meditation: http://www.beatricekamau.com/freemeditation Qualities of a Healthy Friendship - Part 1: https://beatricekamau.com/2021/09/30/qualities-of-a-healthy-friendship-125/
Oct 6
1 hr 1 min
125. Qualities of a Healthy Friendship: Part 1
In this episode, I’m joined by my best friend Ebony to talk about all things friendship. She’s answering tons of your questions about these relationships, and we’re really diving into what makes them special.  Some points we’ll discuss include: The Different Types of Friendships The Elements of Healthy Friendships How to Show Up for Your Friends How to Keep Lasting Friends How to Make Friends as an Adult Friendships are all about genuine connections, finding shared values, and investing the time in the people you feel most bonded with. I received so many questions about friendships that I couldn't even fit them into one episode! So check out the full episode for all the details on what it takes to have (and maintain) a healthy friendship, and don’t forget to tune in next week for Part 2 of our BFF chat. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix  Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com    EPISODE RESOURCES: FREE Self Trust for the Inner Child Meditation: http://www.beatricekamau.com/freemeditation
Sep 29
49 min
124. You Are More Than Worthy
In this episode, we’ll be talking about what happens when you choose self love over codependency. What does your life actually look like when you choose to believe in your worthiness?   Some points we’ll discuss include: Trusting Your Instincts Shattering Limiting Beliefs Discover True Confidence Are you ready to dive into your habits of codependency in order to start putting yourself first? Enroll in Self Love Over Codependency today to learn how to shift from self-doubt to worthiness and DEEP levels of self-trust! Click here to join (Doors will close September 24th) If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
Sep 22
17 min
121. It's Time to Start Your Journey in Choosing Self Love Over Codependency
Codependency can take reigns over our lives, but that doesn’t have to be the end of the story. In this episode, I sat down with some alumni from my Spring 2021 Self Love Over Codependency course. They share their stories, steps they took toward self love, and what life has been like since they decided to put themselves first.  Some points we’ll discuss include: What life was like before SLOC How life changed after SLOC Points to consider if you’re thinking of joining SLOC today Are you ready to dive into your habits of codependency in order to start putting yourself first? Enroll in Self Love Over Codependency today to learn how to shift from self-doubt to worthiness and DEEP levels of self-trust! Click here to join (Doors will close September 24th) If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
Sep 15
1 hr 14 min
118. The Codependency Chronicles: People Pleasing Isn’t Who You Are, It’s What You Learned
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m discussing the root cause of people-pleasing and how to break the habit. People-pleasing is a core symptom of codependency, and overcoming these tendencies can be a long process. But I promise you - it is well worth the inner work! Here are a few points I cover:  People-pleasing isn’t who you are, it’s what you do The brain’s unconscious response How to break the habit Most importantly, I hope that if you see this pattern in yourself, you’re able to treat yourself with the compassion and care it takes to move forward toward self-love & inner peace.  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Sign up for my free 4 day live challenge from Sep 13-16 here!    CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
Sep 8
14 min
117. The Codependency Chronicles: Blood Isn’t Thicker Than Peace
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m kicking off part two of the series with how blood is not thicker than peace. Here are a few points I cover:  How to move away from the shame of being a bad child. How family doesn’t have to be family of origin There’s this huge wound of codependency that makes us second guess ourselves. Unfortunately, the reality is not all of us had that amazing childhood. And I want to let you know that you’re not alone and you deserve to love and be loved. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Sign up for my free 4 day live challenge from Sep 13-16 here!    CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
Sep 1
15 min
116. The Codependency Chronicles: No More Putting Others Above Yourself
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking about the concept of martyrdom. This series is part of what I offer in the Self Love Over Codependency. This is a way to help you see where codependency might be holding you back from the life you deserve to live.  Here are a few points I cover:  How martyrdom functions in our lives How to shift the idea of the martyr I like to look at it as a way to understand why we do the things that we do and how we do it. And how we can shift the things that we learned that aren't serving us and turn it into something that does. Having compassion and forgiveness for ourselves is how we heal. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website   EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code “bizbirthday20” at checkout to save 20% off my e-books, e-courses, workshops, and more over at beatricekamau.com/programs
Aug 25
21 min
115. Jealousy, Comparison, & Codependency
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking about how jealousy and comparison relate to codependency. I’ll also break down the steps on how to stop comparing yourself to others and how to finally overcome the jealousy! Here are a few points I cover:  The core feelings that we are trying to experience What to focus on when it comes to overcoming jealousy How to partner with jealousy and look for abundance These feelings of jealousy, comparison, and anxiousness come from the idea that you’re doing something wrong. You're not doing anything wrong. You're exactly where you're supposed to be and you're doing exactly what you should be doing. Remember, you are on your path. There’s no race. You bloom when it’s time. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website   EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code “bizbirthday20” at checkout to save 20% off my e-books, e-courses, workshops, and more over at beatricekamau.com/programs
Aug 18
26 min
114. How Self-Doubt Impacts Your Ability to be Your Authentic Self
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking all about how to overcome self-doubt and step into your authentic self. I’ll share a bit of my personal journey when it comes to overcoming self-doubt as well as my top tips for finally stepping into and living the true you!  Here are a few points I cover:  You can only try to put on a facade for so long How receptivity changes everything Shifting our beliefs Self-doubt can cause us to have an alternate version of ourselves. You can’t do it for too long before you revert to who you really are. You’re real. The true you will always come out at some point!  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership! You can enroll here   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website
Aug 11
44 min
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