The Second Time Around
The Second Time Around
LaShan and Makela Mims
Joy & Pain: Finding Grace in the Everyday Moments
48 minutes Posted Sep 18, 2025 at 8:40 pm.
Allow Us to Introduce Ourselves
Here I Come!
Say It with us, ”Love, Life, and Family”
Easy Rock...look it up!
Disconnection vs. Connection (Therapist View)
LaShan shares the joy of being Makela’s biggest cheerleader, and why support is in the standard package.
The Year of Victories (2015)
The Attitude of Gratitude and its Impact to Marriage
Grace...Show Up!
The Fix-It Theory
Now We Keepin Secrets ...(Grace Lesson)
There Will Be Pain
Wrap It Up - Take The Joy and Pain Together
Reach Out To You
The Shout Out
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🎶 “Joy and pain... like sunshine and rain.” – Frankie Beverly & Maze (1980)
Let’s be real—marriage isn’t always magic. Sometimes it’s messy, mundane, and full of moments that test your heart and stretch your faith. But even in those everyday tensions, grace still shows up.
In this episode, we talk about how we’re learning to find God’s grace in the ordinary, not just the “Instagram-worthy” moments. From early morning chaos to late-night misunderstandings, we explore how joy and pain coexist—and how love matures in both.
We get into:💬 What it looks like to hold space for both laughter and letdowns💬 How to stay connected when life feels routine💬 Why spiritual maturity means finding purpose in pain💬 Practical ways to lean into gratitude—even when you’re frustrated
This one’s for every couple who knows that love isn’t all sunshine—but it sure is worth the rain. Because the second time around? We’re not chasing perfection—we’re choosing grace.