The Second Time Around
The Second Time Around
LaShan and Makela Mims
No More Drama: Setting Boundaries That Bring Peace
51 minutes Posted Jul 25, 2025 at 5:50 am.
Get to know your hosts! LaShan and Makela
Drama? We don’t do that over here! TEAM PEACE
LaShan shares the personal boundaries he set to keep love first, because making the relationship a priority takes intention and effort.
THE THERAPIST’S ADVICE: Makela breaks down what boundaries really mean, and why they’re essential for healthy love and self-respect.
Communication isn’t just words, it’s tone + language + body language + volume. We break down how delivery can make or break connection.
LaShan drops a boundary analogy you won’t forget, because protecting your relationship starts with knowing where the line is.
Let’s talk boundaries, the ones that need to be discussed. We break down the conversations that protect love, trust, and peace.
Church, boundaries, and worship, how honoring God also means honoring your limits. Let’s talk about protecting your peace in sacred spaces.
LaShan & Makela break down the types of boundaries that keep love healthy, faith strong, and the drama out.
LaShan shares a key tip on keeping work and home in their lanes, because protecting your peace starts with setting clear boundaries.
Where in your marriage do you need stronger boundaries?
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Shout Out Time!
Our prayers are with you .
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🎶 “No more pain… no more drama in my life…” – Mary J. Blige (2001)
This week, we’re not just quoting the Queen—we’re living the lyrics.
In this episode, we’re talkin’ all about boundaries—not the buzzword, but the biblical blueprint that helps protect your peace and preserve your relationship. Because you can’t build real love in chaos... and you sure can’t grow in God when your heart’s full of noise.
We open up about:💬 Letting go of petty patterns and unhealthy cycles💬 How we stopped letting past wounds control present love💬 Creating boundaries that serve both your faith and your future💬 Why peace is the proof of God’s presence in your relationship
This one is for the couple (or the individual) who’s ready to choose wholeness over dysfunction. No more playing tug-of-war with your sanity. No more bending until you break.
The second time around? We’re protecting our peace—and it’s not up for negotiation.