The Second Time Around
The Second Time Around
LaShan and Makela Mims
Love, Laughs & Learning Curves
42 minutes Posted Jul 4, 2025 at 1:23 am.
Welcome to the podcast, family! Real talk, real love, and real faith—join us as we share our story and help you walk out yours with grace and truth.
LaShan and Makela let you in on the laughs—because a little humor goes a long way in love. Here’s how joy keeps our relationship real, light, and full of grace.
How you show up matters! Makela shares the time LaShan had to reel her back from a wild social post—and the lesson they learned about keeping it classy and Christ-like.
Even in the storm, she’s my calm. LaShan shares how Makela is exactly what he needs—a steady peace, even in life’s most distressing moments.
Unlearning the past brings its own learning curves. LaShan shares wisdom on how to open your heart and love again the second time around.
LaShan takes it back to “Alemany Curve”—because in love, just like driving, you’ve got to anticipate the turns if you want to stay on track.
You need the right tools for the curve. We share how to handle life’s twists in love and faith without losing your way—or each other.
We’re wrapping up—but the journey’s not over. Here’s what we’ve learned and a glimpse of what’s coming next time. Stay with us, family!
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🎶 “We laugh just a little too loud… stand just a little too close…”Love hits different when you’ve lived long enough to know: sometimes laughter is ministry, and growth doesn’t come without a few bumps.
In this episode, we get real, and really funny, about the quirks, inside jokes, and “you had to be there” moments that make our marriage what it is. But it’s not all laughs. We also discuss the learning curves that come with a second marriage, including trust, vulnerability, and learning to lean into each other, even when it’s hard.
We’ll share:💬 Why humor is our secret weapon during tense moments💬 How we learned to embrace each other’s quirks instead of changing them💬 The aha moments that helped our love mature💬 Tips to keep joy alive when life feels heavy
Whether you’re building something new, a veteran couple, or figuring it out again, this one’s for anyone who knows that love takes work—and is worth it.