Show notes
In this episode, Amber discusses her personal journey and evolving views on marriage, relationships, and monogamy as a happily divorced woman. She shares her early beliefs around love/relationships/marriage being equated to worthiness, wholeness, lovability, and the societal and systemic influences that reinforced these notions. She recounts her struggles with self-worth, especially as a black child in a PWIs, and the subsequent unhealthy relationships and toxic patterns that stemmed from these beliefs and insecurities. The episode delves into Amber’s realizations over time and what she thinks about love and marriage now. She urgers listeners to understand that fulfilment doesn’t come from being in a relationship, it comes from the quality of the relationship you’re in and we have so much more control than we utilize to dictate the quality of our relationships. Amber emphasizes the importance of understanding personal needs, clear communication, and not settling for less than what you want, regardless of if you currently believe you deserve it or not. She advocates for a broader perspective on love, highlighting that it can be abundant and found in various forms, not just within monogamous or romantic contexts. The goal is to encourage listeners to seek relationships that truly meet their needs without being confined by traditional societal expectations while working to eliminate the guilt and shame imposed when you don’t align with societal normsTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome to The Pleasure Priority Podcast01:06 Personal Reflections on Marriage and Divorce05:47 The Impact of Societal Expectations11:59 Redefining Love and Relationships23:24 Embracing New Perspectives on Marriage26:43 Final ThoughtsRESOURCES:How to be Happy in Any Relationship Quiz -https://www.ambertaylorcoaching.com/quiz Work With Me -https://www.ambertaylorcoaching.com/workwithmeCONNECT WITH AMBER:Ask Amber: https://forms.gle/kqcHJ741jKsDPvAb6 Email: [email protected] Website:https://www.ambertaylorcoaching.com/