Episode Overview: On this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa Hadley Barrett speaks with Adam, an exercise physiologist, content creator (@balancedbyadam) and father of two, about being diagnosed with prostate cancer at just 43 years old. Adam's story starts with a routine blood test. As an exercise physiologist with a family history of prostate cancer and cardiovascular disease, Adam had been adding a PSA test to his own annual bloods since turning 40. At 42, his PSA jumped, a follow-up biopsy found early, low-grade, prostate-confined cancer, and Adam was left with a decision most men his age never expect to face: active surveillance or surgery. Adam talks candidly about the mental toll of “watch and wait” the low mood, the twenty-plus kilograms he quietly put on over the following year, and how he kept what was really going on to himself, using a “bulking phase” story on social media as cover. He also opens up about using a GLP-1 medication (the same class as Ozempic and Wegovy) ahead of surgery, treating himself as a first-hand case study the way he often does for his followers. Ultimately, Adam chose surgery, having a radical prostatectomy in March 2026. Melissa and Adam talk through the realities of recovery that rarely make it into the “you'll be fine, you're young and fit” conversation many men are given beforehand.   Throughout the conversation, Adam speaks openly about his marriage, his two young daughters, and how the diagnosis has changed the way he thinks about time, mortality and being present. He's also using the experience to shift what he talks about on social media, with weekly “Willie Wednesday” posts. ,  This is an honest, unfiltered look at what recovery can really look like for a young, fit man proof that “you'll bounce back quickly” isn't always the story, and that there's no shame in a slower, wobblier road.   In This Episode, We Cover The mental load of “watch and wait” can be just as hard to carry as treatment itself Recovery timelines for continence and erectile function are usually measured in months to a year, even for young, fit men  Pelvic floor physiotherapy matters just as much, sometimes more, for men who are already very fit, since an overactive pelvic floor can slow continence recovery A supportive partner and open, age-appropriate conversations with kids can make a hard diagnosis easier to carry as a family  Key Message from AdamBe proactive rather than reactive. Know your family history, get your bloods done from 40, and don't wait for symptoms. And if recovery is slower than you were promised that doesn't mean something has gone wrong  it just means your journey is your own. Resources & Links Follow Adam’s Instagram account: @balance_by_adam Book a telehealth appointment with our sexual health nurse practitioners at https://rshealth.com.au/book-appointment or email [email protected]  We also have a free Resource Library, sign up for access here: https://rshealth.com.au/resource-library For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au  Click here to shop for medical devices and other products mentioned on the show https://restorative-health-clinic.myshopify.com/  Click here to watch Melissa’s YouTube videos: Melissa Hadley Barrett  Need Support? At Restorative Health Clinic, we support men and their partners with: Penile rehabilitation after prostate cancer treatment Erectile dysfunction Vacuum pump and constriction ring education and prescription Penile injection therapy Intimacy and sexual recovery Partner-inclusive support where appropriate Practical, evidence-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and function  We offer telehealth consultations Australia-wide and internationally, making it easier for men to access experienced, compassionate support no matter where they live. If Steve’s story sounds familiar, w