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The Courage to Lament: Aubrey Sampson on Grief, Ministry, and Sacred Sorrow (Part 2) | PT 131
34 minutes Posted Jul 14, 2025 at 9:00 am.
– Prayers we’re afraid to pray08:00 – The grandkids only God could give12:00 – The gift of lament in public worship17:00 – Creating space for sorrow in Sunday services21:00 – What unprocessed grief does to leaders26:00 – Giving yourself permission to pause30:00 – Big Feeling Days and writing for the littlest grievers💡 Takeaway:Grief doesn’t disqualify us from ministry: it deepens it. Lament is not a detour from discipleship; it is discipleship. Aubrey’s story invites us to become churches that grieve well, love honestly, and make space for the sacred work of tears.
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What if we stopped fearing lament in church, and started embracing it as holy? In this powerful follow-up conversation, pastor and author Aubrey Sampson joins Tara Beth and Mark to talk about leading while grieving, pastoring through pain, and creating sacred space for sorrow in the church.🎙️ In This Episode:How unprocessed grief distorts our leadership and faithThe courage it takes to bring your honest self to the pulpitWhy lament isn’t faithless, it’s an act of deep spiritual trustWhat churches gain when they normalize grief in worship⏱️ Timestamps:03:00 – Prayers we’re afraid to pray08:00 – The grandkids only God could give12:00 – The gift of lament in public worship17:00 – Creating space for sorrow in Sunday services21:00 – What unprocessed grief does to leaders26:00 – Giving yourself permission to pause30:00 – Big Feeling Days and writing for the littlest grievers💡 Takeaway:Grief doesn’t disqualify us from ministry: it deepens it. Lament is not a detour from discipleship; it is discipleship. Aubrey’s story invites us to become churches that grieve well, love honestly, and make space for the sacred work of tears.