Hi, Fam!
Hi, Fam!
Avital Schreiber Levy
TPJ 24: I Can't Afford the Help šŸ’°
32 minutes Posted Jun 17, 2019 at 11:21 am.
] Nicoleā€™s story: How she found a free motherā€™s helper. [6:38] Your need for help is someone elseā€™s opportunity for connection, community, & meaningful contribution. [7:54] Find or create a co-op with other parents. [8:30] If you can, pay for help! [10:07] What to do if thereā€™s no wiggle room in your budget. [12:40] Be open and receptive to help. [13:46] Itā€™s not as expensive as you think. Youā€™d be surprised to see how far a few dollars can go. [14:38] Sometimes ā€œI canā€™t afford itā€ is an excuse for not prioritizing it or placing enough value on it. [15:42] Help is a worthy expense. [18:20] You may need to rearrange your budget. [21:42] Abraham Hickā€™s quote: ā€œYou canā€™t get sick enough to help sick people get better. You canā€™t get poor enough to help poor people thrive. It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyoneā€¦ā€ [22:08] Sometimes it comes down to choice. [23:31] You are worth it. [25:47] Donā€™t kill the golden goose. [29:19] Consider the cost of not getting help. Ā  Links & Resources Show Notes: https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/24 Related Blog Post: Supermom Syndrome (https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/let-go-of-supermom-syndrome/ Podcast episode on Parental BurnoutĀ https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/22) Podcast episode on Parenting Like an Olympic Champion (https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/15) Ā  If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, Iā€™d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a selfie of you listening or a screenshot of the show, post it to instagram stories, and tag me @theparentingjunkie or feel free to DM me on instagram, I try to reply to as many as I can! Are you subscribed to my podcast? Subscribe here so that fresh episodes are delivered directly to you. Those shiny 5 star ratings and sweet reviews have me all gushy, thank you. But more importantly they help other parents discover the Parenting Junkie Show and spread the word about Loving parenting and Parenting from Love. If you have a moment to spare, those reviews mean the world to me, you can leave one here. Ā  Want to connect to like minded parenting junkies? Join our (free & awesome) FB community Love Parenting with Avital.
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Do you desperately need help, but youā€™re worried you canā€™t afford it? Do you want a motherā€™s helper or assistant, but youā€™re not sure where to find them or how much theyā€™ll cost? Do you wonder if thereā€™s an affordable option for those who are less privileged? Do you feel guilty at the thought of paying for help? Ā  In this episode weā€™ll discuss getting the help you so desperately need! Ā  [4:24] Nicoleā€™s story: How she found a free motherā€™s helper. [6:38] Your need for help is someone elseā€™s opportunity for connection, community, & meaningful contribution. [7:54] Find or create a co-op with other parents. [8:30] If you can, pay for help! [10:07] What to do if thereā€™s no wiggle room in your budget. [12:40] Be open and receptive to help. [13:46] Itā€™s not as expensive as you think. Youā€™d be surprised to see how far a few dollars can go. [14:38] Sometimes ā€œI canā€™t afford itā€ is an excuse for not prioritizing it or placing enough value on it. [15:42] Help is a worthy expense. [18:20] You may need to rearrange your budget. [21:42] Abraham Hickā€™s quote: ā€œYou canā€™t get sick enough to help sick people get better. You canā€™t get poor enough to help poor people thrive. It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyoneā€¦ā€ [22:08] Sometimes it comes down to choice. [23:31] You are worth it. [25:47] Donā€™t kill the golden goose. [29:19] Consider the cost of not getting help. Ā  Links & Resources Show Notes: https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/24 Related Blog Post: Supermom Syndrome (https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/let-go-of-supermom-syndrome/ Podcast episode on Parental BurnoutĀ https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/22) Podcast episode on Parenting Like an Olympic Champion (https://www.theparentingjunkie.com/15) Ā  If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, Iā€™d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a selfie of you listening or a screenshot of the show, post it to instagram stories, and tag me @theparentingjunkie or feel free to DM me on instagram, I try to reply to as many as I can! Are you subscribed to my podcast? Subscribe here so that fresh episodes are delivered directly to you. Those shiny 5 star ratings and sweet reviews have me all gushy, thank you. But more importantly they help other parents discover the Parenting Junkie Show and spread the word about Loving parenting and Parenting from Love. If you have a moment to spare, those reviews mean the world to me, you can leave one here. Ā  Want to connect to like minded parenting junkies? Join our (free & awesome) FB community Love Parenting with Avital.