The Parent Pivot Podcast
The Parent Pivot Podcast
Steve and Julia Cummings
“I Didn’t Know What I Didn’t Know": Letting Go of Parenting Regret
26 minutes Posted Apr 28, 2026 at 10:00 am.
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What do you do when you look back on your parenting and wish you had done something differently?
In this deeply honest episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia share a powerful conversation sparked by a true story film—and the emotions it brought to the surface. Together, they explore the weight of regret, the reality that “you didn’t know what you didn’t know,” and how shame can quietly follow parents into their children’s adult years.
You’ll hear real stories, raw reflections, and practical wisdom on how to release yourself from guilt, extend grace to your past, and take meaningful steps toward healing—whether that includes a conversation with your child or work in your own heart.
If you’ve ever replayed parenting moments in your mind and wondered “what if…”—this episode is for you.
Resources mentioned on today's podcast:
1. "The Parent Pivot: 13 Principles for Building Stronger Relationships with Your Adult Children" by Steve and Julia Cummings.
2. Need someone to talk to about your adult child relationship? Call or text   Julia at 714-392-2060 for a FREE consultation. Or visit: www.meadowbrookcounselingga.com