1 Peter 1:14-16 (NKJV) "as obedient children, not conforming yourselves to the former lusts, as in your ignorance; but as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, 'Be holy, for I am holy.'"
Firmly choose obedience by following God's direct commands, decisively leave your old ways behind, and copy His holy example, even if you find your family and friends pressuring you to not leave your old traditions and friendships.

-16 (NKJV) "as obedient children, not conforming yourselves to the former lusts, as in your ignorance; but as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, 'Be holy, for I am holy.'"

Will You Get Real In Regards To Holy Conduct?

Jesus is the only way to heaven. To follow Jesus in America today you must live a counter-cultural life that crashes against the norms of society. The way of the Kingdom of Heaven is a narrow way that only a few will find and follow.