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Beyond Burnout: Finding Your Mission After 40 (with Dr. Kyle Hulsebus)

1 hour 6 minutes Posted Jun 1, 2026 at 11:00 pm.

They Sold You Stress Because Purpose Is Harder to Fix00:45 - Is the Wellness Industry Treating the Wrong Problem?01:00 - What Stress Really Means01:09 - Distress vs. Eustress01:21 - Symptoms, Disconnection, and Purpose02:15 - When You Go Too Far Off Path02:27 - Burnout, Blue-Collar Pressure, and the “Work Until You Drop” Mindset02:42 - Duty vs. Desire03:39 - Burnout as a Sign That Something Changed03:45 - Joe’s Shift From Job Stability to Podcast Purpose04:18 - Accountability, Over-Accommodation, and Modern Work Culture04:36 - Losing Friends, Honest Conversations, and The Middle Ground04:45 - Why Turning the Phone Over Actually Helps04:48 - Dr. Kyle’s 40 Over 40 Framework05:00 - Give Your Phone a Break From You05:18 - Phones, Disconnection, and Real Life05:21 - Why the News Is Designed to Trigger You05:33 - Making Social Media Harder to Reach05:54 - Detached Observation Instead of Emotional Reaction06:03 - Example Over Opinion06:24 - Action vs. Posting Online06:48 - Create More, Consume Less07:00 - The Fear of Posting Your Own Work07:24 - Why Face-to-Face Connection Still Matters08:00 - Why People Still Want Real Rooms and Real Conversations08:33 - Gen Z, Voice Notes, and Relearning Human Contact09:18 - Health as Whole-Being09:30 - Why Life After 40 Can Be Expansion Season09:36 - What Is 40 Over 40?09:48 - “Life Begins at 40”10:24 - Midlife Crisis or Midlife Signal?10:33 - Purpose After Retirement10:39 - Why 40 Can Be a Springboard11:09 - Using Your Whole Life Story11:30 - Why Nothing You Learned Was Wasted11:57 - Holy Curiosity and Asking Why12:15 - What to Do If You Feel Numb, Tired, or Stuck12:18 - The First Step: Three Deep Breaths12:36 - Why Breathing Comes First12:54 - The Five-Year Question13:03 - How to Start Creating the Life You Want13:06 - Where to Find Dr. Kyle Hulsebus13:09 - 40 Over 40, Free Resources, and Dr. Kyle’s YouTubeKEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE:- The critical difference between eustress, the kind of stress that builds you, and distress, the kind that breaks you down.- Why burnout may not always mean you are weak or lazy — it may mean something in your life is no longer aligned.- How phones, social media, and news overload can disconnect you from real life while pretending to keep you informed.- Why creating somethin ...

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Are you constantly exhausted, stressed, and feeling like you're just going through the motions?The wellness industry will sell you a thousand ways to “manage your stress,” but my guest today argues they may be treating the wrong disease.Dr. Kyle Hulsebus joins The MiddleGround Mic to deliver a grounded, no-BS diagnosis for modern burnout: what if the problem is not just overwork, but a loss of purpose, direction, and connection?GUEST LINKS:Dr. Kyle Hulsebus / 40 Over 40:https://40over40.comFree resources mentioned in the episode:- 40 inspiring insights from 40 individuals- 7 signs that you are living off purposeDr. Kyle’s YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@DrKyleHulsebusIn this conversation, we dive into why a life driven only by duty can drain your soul, while a life guided by mission can have you working late into the night and waking up energized. We also get into phones, news overload, creating vs. consuming, life after 40, and why stress may be a signal that something deeper needs an adjustment.This is not just a wellness episode.This is a conversation about purpose, burnout, modern life, and what happens when your body, mind, and direction are no longer lined up.CHAPTERS:

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