How much of yourself have you changed just to be loved? Whether it’s shrinking, softening, or shape-shifting to fit someone else’s expectations, the hunger for external validation can be relentless. We bend, we break, we betray our own needs—hoping that if we’re just enough, we’ll finally feel worthy. But what if the love we’re chasing was never meant to be earned? This episode unpacks why we seek approval, how it erodes self-trust, and what it truly means to receive love without conditions. If you’ve ever felt like you had to perform for belonging, it’s time to rewrite the script.This Episode Is Perfect For You If...You’ve spent your life proving your worth instead of believing in itYou second-guess yourself, wondering if you’re too much or not enoughYou find yourself ignoring red flags or overgiving just to feel wantedYou struggle with self-trust and making choices that honor your truthYou’re ready to stop chasing approval and start claiming your own love "If you have to shrink or silence or shapeshift in order for someone to love you, that’s not love. That’s a transaction." In This Episode((((( "The love you’re seeking isn’t out there somewhere. It’s in here, in you. And when you own that, everything changes." About The Unshakeable SelfThe Unshakeable Self is your guide to building unwavering confidence and authentic self-trust. In each episode, we explore practical strategies and powerful insights to help you break free from self-doubt, embrace your true potential, and create a life that aligns with your deepest values. Whether you're navigating career transitions, relationships, or personal growth, you'll find the tools and inspiration to stand firmly in your power. Your Next Step: The Unshakeable Self Starter KitReady to deepen your journey? The Unshakeable Self Starter Kit includes:Soul-stirring journal promptsA grounding ritual guideMindfulness coloring pages DOWNLOAD YOURS TODAY If you're ready to break the cycle of approval-seeking and build unshakable self-trust, check out my  Resources:Tapping - Feeling Loved and Loveable Connect With Me Seryna MyersInstagram: @serynamyers Tiktok: @serynamyers YouTube: @serynamyers Website: www.seryna.caApply to work with me: seryna.ca/apply Support The ShowLove The Unshakeable Self? Here's how you can help:Leave a 5-star review on Apple PodcastsShare this episode with a friend who needs to hear itScreenshot while listening and tag us @serynamyersMusic by Artem Hramushkin from Pixabay