You constantly wish you had that persons energy or confidence. I know that I do. More than often. Everyone hides their fears. Not everything as it seems, until eventually it will be. Take in those *positive traits* that you wish to have and walk as if you have them, untill one day it will really be yours. DISCLAIMER: These are just lessons I hope will help myself and others. I too am a struggling-to-fit-in-but-at-the-same-time-be-myself kinda person.