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The HVMC: Ep 22: Learn to Show Up without COVERT CONTRACTSIt's time to get what you want out of LOVE, SEX, and LIFE!Dr. Robert Glover - Author of the incredible book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy.A former Nice Guy, Dr. Glover shares the wisdom from previously failed relationships, helping Men show up authentically in their lives. No More Covert Contracts. No More ulterior motives.This begs the question. What is a 'Nice Guy?'A 'Nice Guy' is someone who doesn't believe he is GOOD ENOUGH the way he is. A 'Nice Guy' tries to become what others want him to be, so he can be liked, loved and get his needs met. A 'Nice Guy' hides the parts of him that may get a negative reaction.DON’T wait until your relationship fails. Get ahead of the curve, learn to live genuinely and show up for your significant other correctly. This doesn't mean become an 'Asshole'. We don't want the pendulum swinging too far in the wrong direction. This means get what you WANT out of life, setting healthy BOUNDARIES and being upfront on how you FEEL.NO MORE MR. NICE GUY!Pick up your copy of 'NO MORE MR. NICE GUY' by author DR. ROBERT GLOVERhttps://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy/the-book.htmlMake sure to check out the full conversation on my YouTube channel!📺: Erin AlejandrinoListen ON:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-high-value-man-conversation/id1634646660?i=1000590431185Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3V19SAMCes7NsaqkekHxyN?si=dyoGkJQfSPOFw0bTw_3sNQChapters:00:46 Who is Dr. Robert Glover?04:06 Symptoms of a 'Nice Guy'08:30 3 Types of Covert Contracts16:36 Recovering From 'Nice guy Syndrome'19:00 Connecting With Father Figures/Other Men31:13 Initiation Into the Tribe of Man37:55 Becoming an Integrated Man52:10 Self Sabotage or Rational Thought?56:54 Can You Handle it?Connect with Erin Alejandrino:WEBSITE | INSTAGRAM | YOUTUBE