If you care about how you look, you care about yourself — and that matters. This episode I get into why looks aren't as shallow as we make them out to be, and why paying attention to your appearance is really just another form of self-respect. I talk about where the "looks don't matter" narrative comes from, why it's not actually true, and how taking care of how you look can be one of the most honest signs that you're taking care of yourself.

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