Send us Fan Mail Abuse is a pattern of power and control used to intimidate, manipulate, or harm someone. It doesn't always leave physical marks and can affect anyone regardless of age or gender. Recognizing it early is the first step toward safety and support. Common Warning Signs of Abuse Emotional & Psychological: Constant put-downs, screaming, blaming you for their actions, excessive jealousy, or making you feel as though you are losing your mind (gaslighting).Isolation: Stopping you ...