VIDYA with Verity
VIDYA with Verity
Verity Jo Coonan
Why Your Old Friends Don't Fit Anymore When You Heal: The Grief Nobody Warns You About
14 minutes Posted Jul 5, 2026 at 10:14 pm.
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One of the least talked about costs of healing: the relationships that no longer fit. Not because anyone did anything wrong, because your nervous system changed, and resonance shifted with it. This episode walks through the co-regulation science behind why your system chooses different company as you heal, the specific and often confusing ways relationship drift shows up, the guilt that keeps people stuck in relationships they've outgrown, and how to navigate it with integrity, for yourself and for the people you're letting go of.


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