Psychologist Dr. Heastie explains why you don’t need to move in with your boyfriend or girlfriend in order to determine whether or not you want to marry them. In fact, he discourages moving in with your partner for that same very reason. Studies have shown that the longer you date without actually getting married, the chances of you getting a divorce only one year after marriage skyrockets.

Dr. Heastie also walked us through his meet to marry in 18 months program and what to do when your partner gains an uncontrollable amount of weight in a relationship.

This episode is going to rock your world.