Many times we are caught up trying to make things work in accordance to our own strength. Most of these times we unwittingly strive to work out our relationship with God and others, which becomes hard and ultimately fails. It is therefore important for us to always seek the help of the Holy Spirit in every single thing we undertake, however tiny or 'insignificant' it may seem. The Holy Spirit is our friend, our ever present help so let us lean in and rely solely on His guidance. We have not because we ask not.