Becoming the best version of yourself means that you're going to move away from where you are, so you must be willing to shred your old self. When you're raising your own bar, you're essentially creating a gap between you and people around you.

Making a measurable goal is one of the most effective ways to get out of your head and build confidence. Set reasonable goals. Prevent overwhelming yourself by setting small, measurable goals. ... Each time you take a step toward your goal, you build self-confidence to become the best version of yourself.

The Best Version Of Yourself