Our culture is obsessed with avoiding suffering at all costs, and a lot of that is enforced by the “wisdom” plastered all over TikTok and other social media platforms. “Romanticize your life.” “Let go of what doesn’t serve you.” “Cut people out of your life.” Do these modern-day sentiments bring us closer or further away from Christ? We attempt to analyze these rules for living, discussing the lack of nuance in short-term video content, why we should depend on one another on purpose, and learning how to embrace the mess. Follow us on Instagram: @average.episcopalian. (Yes, we see the irony in that plug.)