Context for Chaos
Context for Chaos
With Vanessa Bartlett and Jessica Geddis
Reaction vs. Intuition in Relationships - Part II
26 minutes Posted Aug 22, 2026 at 5:00 pm.
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Stop trying to fix others or win impossible arguments and start taking authority over yourself.

In this segment we explore the radical idea that boundaries aren’t about changing someone else’s behavior, they’re about refusing to self-abandon just to stay attached to a dopamine fix.

We share a personal look at navigating emotional whiplash and why saying no to an invitation can be the ultimate act of self-trust. It’s time to stop white-knuckling for control and start building your own competence and sense of self.

Join us as we learn to trust our intuition, lift the veil on the truth, and remain stable and secure in our own power.



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