Pamela Joy shares the story of how she overcame negative messages about sex and offers hope on how to reclaim desire in our lives. This talk was filmed at TEDxPaloAlto. All TEDx events are organized independently by volunteers in the spirit of TED's mission of ideas worth spreading. To learn more about TEDxSHORTS, the TEDx program, or give feedback on this episode, please visit http://go.ted.com/tedxshorts.