Terri Orbuch offers three tips on how to reignite the lustful desire between partners in long-term, loving relationships. This talk was filmed at TEDxOaklandUniversity. All TEDx events are organized independently by volunteers in the spirit of TED's mission of ideas worth spreading. To learn more about TEDxSHORTS, the TEDx program, or give feedback on this episode, please visit http://go.ted.com/tedxshorts.