Carol Bruess shares the lessons she’s learned after more than two decades of research and marriage. This talk was filmed at TEDxMinneapolisSalon. All TEDx events are organized independently by volunteers in the spirit of TED's mission of ideas worth spreading. To learn more about TEDxSHORTS, the TEDx program, or give feedback on this episode, please visit http://go.ted.com/tedxshorts.