Taylor Lorenz’s Power User
Taylor Lorenz’s Power User
Taylor Lorenz
People Are Secretly Dating AI And Wont Stop: Everything You Know About AI Girlfriends Is Wrong:
35 minutes Posted Oct 7, 2026 at 10:00 am.
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Why are so many people falling in love with ChatGPT, and what do sensational headlines about AI relationships leave out? 

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In this episode of Power User I speak with technology journalist Bridget Todd about AI companions, chatbot romance, emotional attachment, and the Big Tech companies behind these increasingly intimate interactions.

Bridget’s new audiobook, Love at First Prompt, explores how people use AI for friendship, romance, grief, and emotional support. In this episode, she shares what she learned from interviewing dozens of AI companion users and why the viral ChatGPT marriage story was MUCH more complex than it appeared.

We also discuss loneliness, AI girlfriends and boyfriends, privacy, chatbot sycophancy, and the risks facing vulnerable users. Who profits from artificial intimacy? Can AI offer comfort without replacing human relationships? And are proposed chatbot restrictions addressing the problems people actually face?

Bridget also discusses how AI figured into her own grieving process, and we talk about what the growing AI intimacy business means for adult content creators, human labor, and digital rights.